Doug Bodkin

There was something so unassuming and gracious in Doug's nature, that made him so pleasant and easy to be around. His intellect always abuzz, I loved any opportunity I had to learn from him and his many passions. Never intrusive, always inviting, thoughtful and kind, Doug was a gentle soul with so much to give. I remember when I graduated from high school and you all gave me an open plane ticket as a gift. I used it to fly home from college (to get my braces tightened, of all things - which, by the way, got them out of my mouth 6 months ahead of schedule – a huge gift for a freshman!). Doug surprised me in New Jersey, my connecting city. He was waiting for me as I exited the plane, just to say hi, and to make sure that the flights went as planned. I was so excited to see him. So comforted and at ease. I really felt special as he escorted me to my gate. As I think back to all my times with your dad, I realize this was a common feeling. He had a remarkable way of being present and making you feel listened to and cared for. I am so heartbroken that his life was cut short. I feel immensely blessed to have experienced your dad's love and spirit over the past twenty plus years, and know it will continue to brighten the world as you raise your beautiful families in his memory. With so much love, to each of you, and for Doug. He will be sorely missed.

Maria, Nick, Caroline - you are all in my thoughts and heartfelt prayers. I think of Doug with the fond memories and shared good times, as well as his being a true Renaissance Man. He was a loving husband and father., and a good friend to me and my family.

DOug was my unforgettable friend. HIs sparkling eyes and gentle nature, brilliant mind and kindness will be with me every time I think of him. Maria, Caroline and Nicholaas, my heart goes out to you.You had the best in your father and husband. What a spectacular man graced us all by being here.

Maria I am sorry to hear of your loss. I would like to f2f one give you a hug, but I am following your example and will be traveling t hours week. Hugs to you and your family.

"Oh Captain, my Captain." I served with Doug in Vietnam with the Korean Marines. Last summer Doug and Rex Molihan, another Marine that was in Vietnam with us, came to Colorado for a week. We went white-water rafting and had a great time. We were looking forward to more visits. I am proud to call him my friend, and my Captain.

I guess Doug was my oldest (that is, longest-term) friend, as we met when we were both very small children. Although we were out of touch for quite a few years, we reconnected about 20 years ago. I was blessed to visit him and Maria in Salt Lake City at the time of his 70th birthday in January (2016). Doug was such a special man and a special friend. I shall miss him.